歌手：古巨基 | 作曲：楊鎮邦@宇宙大爆炸
填詞：林夕 | 編曲：雷頌德

我過去　那死黨　早晚共對
各也紮職以後　沒法暢聚
而終於相約到　但無言共對　疏淡如水

日夜做　見爸爸　剛好想呻
卻霎眼　看出他　多了皺紋
而他的蒼老感　是從來未覺　太內疚擔心

最心痛是　愛是太遲
有些心意　不可等某個日子
盲目地發奮　忙忙忙其實自私
夢中也習慣　有壓力要我得志

最可怕是　愛需要及時
只差一秒　心聲都已變歷史
忙極亦放肆　見我愛見的相知
要抱要吻要怎麼也好
偏要推說等下一次

我也覺　我體質　彷似下降
看了症得到是　別要太忙
而影碟　都掃光　但從來未看　因有事趕

日夜做　儲的錢　都應該夠
到聖誕　正好講　跟我白頭
誰知她開了口　未能挨下去　已恨我很久

錯失太易　愛得太遲
我怎想到　她忍不到那日子
盲目地發奮　忙忙忙從來未知

One of the shots

TB's studio

Last sunday, my husband and I decided to become "professional" photographers. Our target? Little Isaac! Check out our props

Same route, difference experience

I was sitting near the driver’s seat of a bus last Sunday. I love sitting on buses. Firstly, it allows you to “stone” and watch the world go by. Secondly, the time spent on bus allows me to think about my life. Thirdly, I love the solitude amongst the crowd.

Ok, back to my bus story. I was sitting on the bus, feeling rather bored so I started to observe the bus driver at work. He was a young chap, early twenties perhaps; Indian and chubby. As I look at him, I cannot help but think to myself how life as a bus driver is. Full of control? Yes. Control of the bus and passengers’ destiny and safety. And what goes on in his mind as he drives along his route? I think he will drive along this route for at least 4 times. Each time, the same route but different people on his bus, on his road. Different state of mind and space.

Yes, every hour, every minute and every second, time passes. It reminds me to treasure each second and the experience that comes with it well. Once it passes, you will lose it and that is it, period. Everything will be different.

Live life, treasure life!!

My husband is superb! This evening, we decided to cook maggi mee for dinner. He volunteered to cook whilst I put Isaac to bed. i told him i wanted a hard boiled egg that has runny yolk but firm white. Not an easy task cos you got to control the fire and timing. But, he did it. The egg was cooked to perfection. Thank U!

I am a very fortunate woman. I have a job that I love, a husband who is so caring and accedes to my requests, a son who is so cute and an apple in everyone's eyes, parents who are supportive. What more can I ask?

Wat colour am I?

You're the color blue. You have the three c's in life--you're cool, caring and confident. Trustworthy and honest, people are naturally attracted to you. You're unusually optimistic, but that makes life all the better. You're an imaginative person who loves sleeping and dreaming. Hard-working and determined, you excell in school. You're everybody's favorite, and this is because you have this undefined richness in your personality and attitude. Mild-tempered and stable. Not to mention very intelligent. Along with the fact that you're conservative, you're worried about the environment. So basically, you're a generous, dependable and devoted--just the kind of person everybody needs. Wouldn't it be great if everybody in the world were like you?

D-I-E-T

Ok, I am truly, seriously going on a diet, starting next Monday. I have been mouthing this four-lettered word since god knows when. But hey, I had been successful once and that was one year before my wedding. I lost 20 kgs over a period of 18 months. Not bad eh? Then it is all hell broke loose. I ate as and when I like, exercise as and when I like. My friends are not helping me much, going on food trails every Saturday. But I guess it boils down to discipline, self discipline. I better be serious, if not I will end up having to tailor my clothes.

Rules ahoy!

We, Singaporeans are so rules bounded. On the roads, there are signs dictating what should be the appropriate speed, which are the left turning lanes and which are the right turning ones. There are many more rules, ask anyone who went through their highway code. In schools, students have to abide by their school rules, if not risk being labelled as deviant. In office, there are also rules to follow. For example, my office has this hilarious rule of whoever is late for more than 3 times will be counselled by boss. (Ha!). Another illogical one - those who are on course and needs to come back to office for clinical or other official duties cannot claim for time off because going for course is considered a privilege and not an entitlement (Hey, it sounded so much like when I was in the airforce) for the employee. Going for course is for professional development and ultimately the company will benefit. Of course I cannot deny the fact that the employer is the one who benefited most in terms of knowledge gain but hey why be so calculative??!
Rules are parameters set up to guide us; we should not let it dictate us, much less for the illogical ones.

What is life without dreams?

Yes, what is life without dreams? Can one really live without dreams? I don't know but i definitely can't. It is my dreams that kept me sane, it is my dreams that kept me striving. I became a dream chaser at age 25 (quarter life crisis?!), never regretted cos I became a happier person.

My little precious, Isaac
Was a precious gift
Sent from God
He fills our heart with happiness
And touch our lives with love
Never fails to bring a smile to our faces
We will give our all
And always do our best
To give our precious Isaac
our GREATEST love

Nwever judge a book by its cover

Yesterday, I has a short discussion with a colleague on emotional well-being, coping and subsequently on the topic of isolation. It was a very brief exchange of ideas of whether isolation is a form of coping for youths and is it seen in a negative or positive light? Sets me thinking isolation along the lines of Durkheim’s anomie. Never thought this colleague of mine to be interested in this type of conversation. Well, I guess there are two sides to everything or many multiple sides. I begin to see her in a different light now.